The True Purpose of the Wing Man

So the last post began with “Let us start with the usual bad rap of the Wing Man”.   We talked about the most common of misunderstandings of what a Wing Man is.  So we will today look at the true purpose of a Wing Man and who has the right stuff to be just that A True Wing Man.   We will discover why the hopeless romantic possess the skill to become a Serial Wing Man.

But first lets look at the Military definition of a wingman and translate that to the real world.

wingman (or wingmate) is a pilot who supports another in a potentially dangerous flying environment. Wingman was originally a term referring to the plane flying beside and slightly behind the lead plane in an aircraft formation.

According to the U.S. Air Force,

The traditional military definition of a “Wingman” refers to the pattern in which fighter jets fly. There is always a lead aircraft and another which flies off the right wing of and behind the lead. This second pilot is called the “Wingman” because he or she primarily protects the lead by “watching his back.” [1]

The Wingmans job is to protect your interest and that is returning home alive in a combat environment that could very well work out in the dating area of the night club.  Your Wing Man has a responsibility to protect you from what could be a potentially dangerous situation of her boyfriend just went to the bathroom, now is your time to strike.  The Wing man should have the guts to advise you and move you out of that mode of thinking so you don’t run the risk of being shot down literally by the jealous boyfriend or crazy husband waiting for a fight.

So the first protocol of the Wing Man is to ensure your safety and protect you from yourself.  If Jack Daniels is telling you to talk to the pretty woman with the 6 ft 5 in husband weighing in a 315 lbs and you are 5 ft nothing weighing in at a heft 125lbs soaking wet with 3 overcoats on and cinder blocks  for shoes.  YOU NEED A WING MAN TO SAVE YOU FROM YOURSELF!!!!!!!

Next we will continue the Wing Man redefined establishing the Wing Man Protocols

Stay tuned.

Gunny

The Serial Wing Man

The Misunderstood Wing Man…

Let us start with the usual bad rap of the Wing Man.  Wing man takes one for the team and is essentially cannon fodder for you to get your prize. Wing Man has to take the fat ugly chick so you can score.  Wing man has to talk you up and be your cheerleader.  Wing Man is your boy who cant  get his own girl so he helps you score yours by running interference.  This really is not in the highest light of the True Wing Man and is often looked upon as his only skills.  We will discover why the hopeless romantic possess the skill to become a Serial Wing Man. Though the pic below is funny it is not the primary role of the Wing Man.

Nor is the old tried and true take one for the team.  Illustrated below.

The mark of a true Wing Man is not defined within these pictures but a much greater and overlooked life mission.

My Confessions will take us on a journey of Wing Manning  your closest friend into the relationship of their dreams.  These stories and techniques can be dangerous in the wrong hands  and be used in the club for that infamous “hit it and quit it” or one night stand.  But I warn you to expend your energy for something you can be proud of and that should be your boy or girls happiness.  If done right their spouse will always have a spot for you in their home and you will loose none of the hangout time with your boy because of his girl not liking you.  The Information I’ll be sharing has sparked relationships between social friends who always wanted to get together and never did or who were afraid to get together and didn’t know how.  These events led to long lasting relationships in which over 85%  of my victims ended up married and over 90% of those marriages are still functioning healthily and strong.

Next we will enter the Wing Man redefined establishing the Wing Man Protocol, Skills and Traits.

Stay tuned.

Gunny

The Serial Wing Man

So… Do you have the balls to be a Wing Man/Woman

The Wing Man/Woman is the ultimate protector and fail safe for any mission you need to accomplish for a friend.  Be it chasing a one night stand or landing the man or woman of your dreams. When entering the combat of breaking the ice and establishing communication with the opposite sex  you can never go wrong having a professional Wing Man/Woman at your side.  The Primary role of the Wing Man/Woman is their friends happiness and well being.  The Wing Man/Woman is not selfish or thinking of him or herself while in this role.  The sole purpose is helping accomplish the task at hand whatever that may be.  A Wing Man/Woman is the guide to a successful strike or bugout when things aren’t right.

Following will be “Confessions of a Serial Wing Man” the stories of life where being The Wing Man payed huge personal happiness for me to see my fellow brother or sister happily in love and grateful for my help.  A hopeless romantic and true believer in love I’m  going to share my experiences in loves won and lost and how the Wing Man was the glue.

I warn you this is a selfless role not to be taken lightly.  Only the most secure and selfless person can become a Serial Wing Man/Woman.

Do You Have The Balls?  Can You Handle The Pressure?

Brighton Chase “Gunny” Cole

The Serial Wing Man.